tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-108919332024-03-19T04:10:11.012-07:00Christian Social EtiquetteChristian Social Etiquette is a blog tailored for the Christian woman. Author Gayla Baughman stresses the importance of who you are and how to conduct yourself socially in areas of communication and hospitality. She discusses other social graces such as manners and setting a table. She also includes the proper etiquette involved in planning weddings and showers. Learn how to be a gracious guest in someone else’s home and pick up tips on being a proper hostess.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-38542093958361184472015-09-17T06:17:00.000-07:002015-09-17T06:17:10.305-07:00A Servitude Attitude<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Have you given much thought to cultivating a <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">servitude attitude</i>? This attitude is
essential if you plan to minister to others. I am not talking about dropping
your household chores like the disciples did their fishing nets, and following
Christ to the next town. You can minister to people in need within your reach.
I’m talking about the people who live in your circle, the ones you rub
shoulders with in the midst of your daily routines.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If you desire to <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">MINISTER</b> to them, you must have an <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">attitude of servitude</i>. You are at their disposal, waiting for an
opportunity to make their lives easier, happier, and more fulfilled. If you
will digest the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">servitude attitude</i>
concept and practice it, you will be a true “minister,” one who ministers to
the needs of others.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Another interesting benefit of a servant’s attitude, is
respect. It is impossible to gain respect from others by demanding it. I’m sure
you have witnessed this attitude among your acquaintances, but when you begin
serving others, and showing humility, respect will come. It will be earned by
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-45315250693051355982012-11-21T06:35:00.002-08:002012-11-21T06:41:10.704-08:00Auto Etiquette<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Etiquette was invented to make life easier. These days there are hundreds of etiquette guidelines. We have telephone etiquette, wedding etiquette, e-mail etiquette, cell phone etiquette, we even have web etiquette called netiquette!</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">I was thinking if we really want to make life easier, we need some automobile etiquette, or driving etiquette. You know, like the way the semi’s blink their lights twice when they are saying “thank you” to pull over in front of you? Now, isn’t that nice? If we could just get some common communication between cars it would make life so much easier. We could honk twice for “please move over” or we could lean out the window and give a high five for someone who manages to get to the front of the line when traffic is merging because a lane is running out. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small;">Let’s be realistic! Auto etiquette is in dire need, but realistically, I don’t think people want to love each other when in their cars. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">One of the most exhilarating things I can think of is finding the perfect gift and watching someone’s eyes dance when they open it. As I have gotten older, I would rather watch my children and grand children open gifts on Christmas than open my own. I don’t want to miss their expressions. Why do I feel this way? Because I love them and I love making them happy. It is the same for anyone you love. Making them happy is the best gift you can give. </span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Father’s day is coming up. If you are like me, I’m frequently in a quandary as to what gift would be the perfect gift for father. We kid about the “annual tie” or pair of socks (in various colors; black or brown) but this year, why not “WOW” father with a gift that is personal and endearing. A box of candy for the Dad with a sweet tooth, or who says men don’t like flowers? If your Dad is a green-thumb kind of guy, why not get him a plant or tree to add to his landscape? What about those special sunglasses he’s had his eye on but didn’t want to spring the $70 for them? Gift cards are always fun for the person that loves to shop. Your father may love to browse the local home improvement or computer store. Is your Dad an iTunes user? You can always get a nice gift card from his favorite restaurant. There are endless possibilities, but the most important thing is finding the perfect gift that personalizes your affection for him. </span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Here are a few tips for giving gifts for any occasion: </span></div>
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<li style="font: 12.0px 'Times New Roman'; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 6.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Always remove the price tag from the gift you plan to give. If you feel they may need to exchange an item, keep the receipt and let the recipient know they are welcome to exchange it. Most stores will print a “gift receipt” upon request. This makes it very convenient to exchange an item. These receipts have a bar code so the cashier can tell how much the item was, but it is not printed on the receipt. This type of receipt can be included in the wrapping of the gift. I usually tape it on the outside of the box or put it in with the card.</span></li>
<li style="font: 12.0px 'Times New Roman'; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 6.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Either wrap the gift in wrapping paper or use a gift bag. Handing a gift still in the store’s merchandise bag shows a lack of planning and may come across insensitive to the occasion. To the recipient, the time put into the presentation of a gift can often be interpreted as care and affection.</span></li>
<li style="font: 12.0px 'Times New Roman'; margin: 0.0px 0.0px 6.0px 0.0px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;">Unless you are attending a party where gifts are opened in public, or it is a group presentation (for a teacher, pastor, or boss), a private intimate choice is more endearing for gift giving. If you want your recipient to open the gift upon receipt, express that desire to them as you give them the gift. To some it may be a little embarrassing, but most people will accommodate the giver if they request it.</span></li>
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</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-1108623359991150112010-04-07T22:47:00.000-07:002010-07-09T09:56:08.849-07:00Introduction<span style="font-family:verdana;color:#cc6600;">When I was first asked to teach a course called Social Graces at Christian Life College, in Stockton, California, I began searching for resources. After searching many bookstores and libraries on the subject, I was dismayed to find there was no single source that would serve as a textbook for this class. As I compiled my material from the resources available, I stumbled upon another revelation. From the limited sources put out by Christian companies, many emphasized areas of concern that would not apply to conservative Christian ladies. When I approached the subject on appearance, I groped for material, refusing to put vain suggestions into the hands of students who were trying to be more Christ-like. The need for a Christian perspective on the subject of beauty and other areas of etiquette inspired this writing. If you're interested in ordering Christian Social Graces please go to <a href="http://www.christiansocialgraces.com/">www.christiansocialgraces.com</a></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-1110080275687901532010-04-06T19:29:00.000-07:002010-04-08T12:01:18.226-07:00Announcing the EngagementOn a crisp November evening, the stars were specks of twinkling diamonds in the clear sky. It was a dreamy night, the night I became engaged. Of course, it is much more romantic as I remember it now, a few decades later. The happiness that engulfed me made my feet feel as though they would never touch the ground again. I was engaged to be married! From that moment on, my world was a blur of excited planning mixed with even bouts of euphoria and stress.<br /><br />Perhaps your day is almost here; the day you have dreamed of. You are engaged to Mr. Wonderful and it won’t be long before you will be a bride. This is your dream-come-true. You will be the beautiful princess in a long flowing white gown, ready to meet your prince, the man of your dreams.<br /><br />Beautiful weddings don’t guarantee beautiful marriages. But every bride wants a wedding that will be forever etched in her memory. As is your marriage, your wedding will be as beautiful as the time invested planning. When you think about all the details that planning a wedding involves, it can be very overwhelming, but it doesn’t need to be. If you plan ahead you may find that planning your wedding can be actually fun!<br /><br />Your Prince Charming has popped the question and you have agreed to marry your <em>One and Only</em>. Now you want the world to know. I would not suggest climbing to the roof and shouting your engagement announcement from there, although that is probably how you feel. Your family should be the first in line to hear the announcement. Get together and tell both of your parents first (unless of course, your beloved got their permission before asking you!) Even so, it is a great idea to share the news personally with them. The best way to let your friends and family know the good news is to make a formal announcement. This can be done by having an engagement party, publishing it in the local newspaper, or sending our formal announcements. Whatever the choice, have fun sharing the news! And by the way, congratulations!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-1110681514769606122010-04-05T18:33:00.000-07:002010-04-08T12:02:02.085-07:00The Wedding CoordinatorMany brides are well capable of planning and organizing every aspect of their weddings. Purchasing a wedding planner and following the organized suggestions is all the direction many brides need.<br /><br />A wedding coordinator is either someone of your choice, or someone the church provides. If the church has a wedding coordinator, she will help you with the pastor’s schedule and coordinate your plans with his. She can clear up many questions regarding church regulations, give you suggestions on music, reception, decorations, and help you walk through the rehearsal and ceremony. The coordinator will work closely with the clergy or pastor during the rehearsal. The pastor often knows ceremony etiquette and will be the primary spokesman, but it is nice to have a liaison between you and well-meaning family or friends especially if things start to get out of hand. Having someone else there with knowledge about weddings, will help preserve your wishes.<br /><br />Even if the church has a wedding coordinator, you may want to use a personal coordinator, someone of your choice, for the rehearsal and ceremony. When looking for someone to be a personal wedding coordinator, find one who is not afraid to take charge with initiative to follow through. This person can help the pastor during the rehearsal by seeing that it starts on time, goes smoothly, and reflects your wishes. When it is time for the ceremony, she will help pin corsages, keep mom calm, tell the attendants when to enter the procession and help you with last minute touches just before you enter the sanctuary.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-1110090082356519702010-04-04T22:11:00.000-07:002010-04-08T12:02:24.002-07:00Wedding Time Line<p><strong>12 Months before:</strong></p><strong><ul><li></strong>Announce your engagement.</li><li>Arrange for your parents to get together if they haven’t already met.</li><li>Select a date.</li><li>Choose the kind of wedding you want.</li><li>Go over the budget. (Include both sets of parents if they will be paying for any portion of the event.)</li><li>Work on guest list to get a rough guest count.</li><li>Reserve the ceremony site and talk to the pastor.</li><li>Reserve a reception site.</li></ul><p><strong>6-9 Months before:</strong></p><ul><li>Purchase a wedding planner.</li><li>Choose your wedding party.</li><li>Decide on a caterer.</li><li>Enroll in bridal gift registry.</li><li>Shop for a gown.</li><li>Shop for attendants’ dresses.</li><li>Choose a photographer and, if desired, a videographer.</li><li>Hire a florist.</li><li>Book musicians and/or DJ.</li></ul><p><strong>4-6 Months before:</strong></p><strong><ul><li></strong>Order wedding invitations, envelopes, and thank-you cards.</li><li>Order your wedding gown.</li><li>Order tuxedos for the groom and groomsmen.</li><li>Shop for cake.</li><li>Scout accommodations so you can send guests a list of nearby hotels in various priceranges. (Most hotels offer lower rates when you tell them a group is coming.)</li><li>Meet with the caterer or banquet manager to discuss menus, service style, etc.</li><li>Complete the guest list.</li><li>Arrange the rehearsal dinner.</li></ul><p><strong>2-4 Months before:</strong></p><strong><ul><li></strong>Call county clerk’s office to find out about requirements for the marriage license.</li><li>Check state requirements for blood tests.</li><li>Make honeymoon reservations, and compile all necessary travel documents.</li><li>Pick ceremony and reception music. (Check with ceremony site about any restrictions.</li><li>Order wedding cake.</li><li>Complete honeymoon plans.</li><li>Meet with party-rental companies if special supplies, such as candelabras, tables and chairs are being used for the ceremony or reception.</li></ul><p><strong>4-8 Weeks before:</strong></p><ul><li>Mail invitations eight weeks ahead of the date.</li><li>Have final dress fitting and select headpiece.</li><li>Buy your fiancé’s wedding gift.</li><li>Buy thank-you gifts for the attendants.</li><li>Look over insurance papers with your fiancé (car, life, medical, home) – You may need to make changes in the policies when you go from single to married.</li></ul><p><strong>2-3 Weeks before:</strong></p><ul><li>Arrange seating for the reception.</li><li>Confirm details with caterer, florist, etc.</li><li>Give caterer the final head count.</li><li>Send an engagement photograph with a wedding announcement to the newspapers.</li></ul><p><strong>1 Week before:</strong></p><strong><ul><li></strong>Place fees in envelopes to be given to the organist, soloist, minister, etc., on the big day.</li><li>Appoint a reliable pal to bring a cake knife, toasting glasses or other heirlooms to the wedding site before hand (and to be responsible for getting them home again).</li><li>Get a manicure, pedicure, facial, massage or other beauty treatment of your choice.</li><li>Pack for the honeymoon. (Arrange for someone to bring your luggage and going-away clothes to the reception site if you are leaving from the reception.)</li></ul><p><strong>The day before:</strong></p><ul><li>Greet out-of-town guests.</li><li>Go to the gym, take a long walk, or do some other stress-reducing activity.</li><li>Schedule time for a bubble bath, facial or a hair-styling appointment before the rehearsal dinner.</li><li>Attend the wedding rehearsal and dinner.<br /></li></ul>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-1108765125277304042010-03-18T14:16:00.000-07:002010-04-08T11:51:20.864-07:00The Convenience of WheelsSprinting our way from one end of the Louisville Kentucky airport, my daughter and I decided that food was a priority. Unfortunately, all the eating places were on the opposite end of the terminal. I was exhausted and relieved when we finally found our food. As we were making our way back down the long hall I expressed to my daughter how out of shape I must be because I was so out of breath. She looked over at me and said, “Mom, don’t you think your roller suitcase would work better if you used the wheels?” I stopped for a moment to get my breath, looking forlorn at my carry-on rollie and realized that I was dragging my pretty tapestry bag on the floor without using the convenience of the wheels!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-1110091195564928602010-03-05T22:39:00.000-08:002010-04-08T11:58:00.544-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNMiP9uAIQGlZJWwPw_m1g_IskHp5M_FEPVHEy7SHbRa_cWREDXp2DdkFyEtV-6cQ7PN08Q8xTp-rK6gnk7CK84z7aGKJQEyfuoii3eDrlMCPy_ZDQ4PC0SAj0MneJwE_2_miD/s1600/Baughman+Sullivan+12-08.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 251px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5457842755777769570" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNMiP9uAIQGlZJWwPw_m1g_IskHp5M_FEPVHEy7SHbRa_cWREDXp2DdkFyEtV-6cQ7PN08Q8xTp-rK6gnk7CK84z7aGKJQEyfuoii3eDrlMCPy_ZDQ4PC0SAj0MneJwE_2_miD/s320/Baughman+Sullivan+12-08.jpg" /></a><br /><div><br />A picture of my family! <a href="http://www.hello.com/" target="ext"><img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; BACKGROUND: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; BORDER-TOP: 0px; BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px" border="0" alt="Posted by Hello" align="absMiddle" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/pbh.gif" /></a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-17275895677552310292010-01-13T13:44:00.000-08:002010-04-08T11:52:36.763-07:00P.O.S.H. Etiquette for Young Girls!<embed style="WIDTH: 400px; HEIGHT: 320px" name="flashticker" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" align="middle" src="http://widget-d0.slide.com/widgets/slideticker.swf" quality="high" scale="noscale" salign="l" wmode="transparent" flashvars="cy=bb&il=1&channel=2954361355555767760&site=widget-d0.slide.com"></embed> <div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left; WIDTH: 400px"><a href="http://www.slide.com/pivot?cy=bb&at=un&id=2954361355555767760&map=1" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://www.slide.com/pivot?cy=bb&at=un&id=2954361355555767760&map=2" target="_blank"></a><a href="http://www.slide.com/pivot?cy=bb&at=un&id=2954361355555767760&map=F" target="_blank"><img border="0" src="http://widget-d0.slide.com/p4/2954361355555767760/bb_t063_v000_s0un_f00/images/xslide42.gif" /></a></div><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:130%;">Welcome to the POSH girls!<br />Here are some stories about girls who learn to be Princesses on the Outside and Servants in the Heart. In this series of books, young teens and preteens will meet other Christian girls who are growing up and learning the grace of social etiquette. These books are designed to be used alone or in a group. </span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;"></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;">Available at <a href="http://baughmangroupministries.com/">http://baughmangroupministries.com/</a></span><br /><span style="font-family:Arial;font-size:130%;">Order yours today!</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-1131133943212588482009-11-04T11:49:00.000-08:002010-04-08T11:53:34.275-07:00Ethics & Etiquette for Today's Ministry<a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7714/861/1600/Ethics%20and%20Etiquette.0.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; FLOAT: left; CURSOR: hand" border="0" alt="" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/7714/861/400/Ethics%20and%20Etiquette.jpg" /></a><br />Ethics & Etiquette for Today's Ministry<br />by Terry and Gayla Baughman<br />Addressing the vital subject of ministerial ethics with a fresh look, Terry R. Baughman compiles lessons and practical applications from the class on this subject at Christian Life College.<br />Gayla Baughman joins in this project with her expertise in Christian social etiquette to produce this informative and insightful edition.<br />It deals with the theoretical as well as the practical issues of proper conduct in the contemporary life of the ministry.<br />Media Type: Paperback<br />Copyright: ©2005<br />Size: 5 x 8<br />ISBN: 0971041172<br />Price: $15.00<br />Order today at: <a href="http://baughmangroupministries.com/">http://baughmangroupministries.com/</a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-29265795313492111352009-08-06T14:51:00.000-07:002009-08-06T14:56:30.874-07:00Conversation EtiquetteOnce you have met a new friend, you begin talking to each other, learning what things you have in common and other details to help the relationship along. It is imperative to have a balance of listening and talking to accomplish the ideal conversation. It is amazing how many people can make conversation but have difficulty communicating. Conversation etiquette includes the ability to communicate as you interact with another person. For some, this takes discipline, especially if they like to do all the talking. Frankly, if you do all the talking, you need to learn to stop and listen. Give the other person a chance to say something. You may find that the people you talk to every day are really quite interesting.<br /><br />Conversation is a two-way connection. When one person dominates the conversation, it is like cutting the phone piece in half and holding just the mouthpiece. It is obvious that the person dominating the conversation is not in the least interested in what you have to say if she never gives you a chance to say it. What would happen if she cut the phone piece in half? She would end up with no one to talk to because the communication device has been broken. The same misfortune happens when someone breaks the device of two-way communication. They may end up talking to themselves.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-7885634507536576282009-06-16T09:59:00.000-07:002010-04-08T12:03:34.176-07:00Shaking HandsThe question was asked:<br />"Does a woman still extend her hand first to a man when shaking hands?"<br /><br />According to Cynthia Lett, a certified Protocol Professional,<br /><br /><em><span style="font-size:85%;">If you are in a business situation, you extend your hand to a woman just as you would to any man. In a social situation, you extend your hand to women your age and younger. Wait until an older woman extends her hand to you. Social situations are weddings, dinner parties, out with friends and family. If business is any part of it, it will be a business situation and men and women are equal in business. In social situations, age and gender do make a difference. Older women have the highest stature.</span></em> <div><span style="font-size:85%;">CPPwww.lettgroup.com<br /></span></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"></span></div><div></div><div><br />Traditionally, when two people meet, it is socially etiquette for the person with the higher rank to choose whether or not to shake hands.<br /></div><div></div><div></div><div><span style="font-size:85%;"><em><br />Judith Martin, in Miss Manners' Guide to Excruciatingly Correct Behavior writes, "the higher-ranking person-socially this means women before men, except in the case of presidents, kings, or popes, and the greater age and more exalted positions before the younger and less significant-either sticks out a hand or doesn't." The lower-ranking person shouldn't be the one to initiate the handshake. But if that should happen, Miss Manners says to go ahead and shake anyway. "The worst error is to pass by a hand that has been extended, however erroneously."Robin Thompson, owner of Etiquette </em></span><a style="TEXT-DECORATION: underline !important" id="KonaLink0" oncontextmenu="return false;" href="http://www.essortment.com/articles/how-shake-hands_4886.htm" target="_top"><span style="font-size:85%;"><em>Network</em></span></a><em><span style="font-size:85%;"> and the Robin Thompson Charm School, says. "In business nowadays, we don't make a distinction based on sex. Socially, yes, it's nice to perform common courtesies, but in business, women should be treated as equals and women should shake hands. A lot of men think this is a gray area because they were brought up to be respectful and courteous to a woman, and not shake a woman's hand until the woman offers hers, and so forth. In business, preference is given to rank. So if the CEO is a man, and the woman is a junior, then he should extend his hand first."</span><br /></em><span style="font-size:85%;">Courtesy of: http://www.essortment.com/articles/how-shake-hands_4886.htm</span></div><br />With this in mind, church protocol would be different in an evangelical setting as opposed to a more traditonal setting. Charasmatic and Pentecostal churches are based on a "family" atmosphere and freely greet before services begin and after the invitation. Many pastors prefer the congregation move their greetings to the foyer after the service as a courtesy of some who may be praying or meditating after the message. In either case, the greeting handshake does not fall under the business protocol but under social protocol.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-1110089305391677972009-03-02T21:50:00.000-08:002010-04-08T12:03:58.677-07:00Eating outHave you ever wondered how it would feel to be the guest of Jesus Christ? Do you wonder what it would be like to sit at the same table with Jesus and listen to His teachings? It won’t be long before you will realize that dream. He has arranged the marriage supper of the Lamb for us when we get to Heaven (Revelation 19:9). Accept every dinner invitation you are able to attend. Practice using your best manners at every meal. Just think of all the experience you are receiving in preparation for the ultimate dinner invitation of your life.<br /><br />Now is a good time to brush up on some of those long-forgotten table manners. Table manners should be observed whether you have been invited to dine at a fine restaurant, go on a picnic, or be a guest in someone’s home. So here we go for a few tips to brush you up!<br /><br />Nowadays, you have a wide range of dining options, from the exotic restaurant overlooking a lake to the simple park vendor or the mall kiosk. With the popularity of casual dining on the rise, formal manners are rapidly being forgotten, but the chivalry of courting a young woman has not lost its magic. The formal date may have changed, but the “I want to impress you” attitude has not.<br /><br />I am frequently amazed at young people I see hanging around the college lunchroom. The guys are dressed in faded old jeans and worn-out tee shirts. The girls often wear straight skirts with shirts so over-sized they hang almost to their knees. When I become disillusioned and think the world is going to pot, a Valentine or Christmas Banquet rolls around. Some of these same young men are now dressed in suits, ties, and newly shined shoes. They are escorting the same young ladies, now beautiful, their hair meticulously fashioned in the latest style carrying a fresh bouquet of flowers. My faith in youth is renewed as I observe their careful actions. Many times I am surprisingly rewarded with the observance of meticulous manners and proper etiquette. Hooray! You haven’t lost it! That just reinforces my theory that when people want to be on their best behavior, they thrive on manners.<br /><br />Most of the time you may head to the nearest fast-food restaurant after church. In a group, a person is not considered anyone else’s date unless it is made clear before ordering. Fast-food restaurants are considered casual dining. Manners are always in order, but the etiquette in this atmosphere is much more relaxed and free. Manners are not meant to make mealtime a difficult regime with the sole purpose of making life miserable. Rather, manners are suggestions to remind us to be polite and respectful to each other.<br /><br /><strong>Formal Dining</strong><br /><strong></strong><br />It is a miserable feeling to find yourself at a formal dinner or banquet, wishing you knew what to do next. After someone prays for the food, wait for the host or hostess to unfold his or her napkin. Then remove your napkin from the table, gently shaking it unfolded. Place the napkin on your lap, completely unfolded if it is a small one or folded in half if it is larger. Never tuck it in your neck collar. This looks like you are about to tackle the meal rather than simply enjoy it. If the host or hostess forgets about his or her napkin, feel free to go ahead. Perhaps others will follow suit.<br /><br />Usually, the napkin is unfolded as soon as you are seated, unless you are at a banquet or meeting where the meal is served after the preliminaries. In this case follow the head table, or keep an eye on the servers. When the servers are ready to bring the first course to the tables, place the napkin in your lap at that time.<br /><br />At a restaurant, if you forget to unfold your napkin, often the waiter or waitress will offer to do it for you. This is common, just sit politely and let them pamper you. Remove your hands from your lap and remember to reward the waiter with a gracious “thank you” and smile. The napkin should remain on your lap throughout the entire meal. If you need to leave the table during the meal, excuse yourself, fold the napkin, and place it either on your chair or beside your plate. Once the meal is over, you should place the unfolded napkin to the right of your dinner plate. An unfolded napkin at the side of your plate signals the hostess or waiter that you have finished your meal.<br /><br />The person who asks you out to dinner will usually suggest that your order be taken first. Sometimes, however, the server will decide how the ordering will proceed, often taking women's orders before that of the men. When couples dine, some women enjoy having the man place their order with the server. After making your choices, your host will recite your wishes to the server as a gentleman’s gesture. I enjoy this pampering. I feel loved and taken care of when my husband orders for me.<br /><br />As the guest, you should not order one of the most expensive items on the menu unless your host or hostess makes a suggestion, indicating that it is all right. You may put them at a disadvantage if you order an expensive entrée and an appetizer. He or she may not have the money to cover the expenses. If the host says something like, "I think you would enjoy the filet mignon. It is the specialty here,” or “I'm going to have cheesecake. Would you like dessert too?" It is then all right to order that item. Sensitivity to the financial needs of your host is a gracious gesture that will be well rewarded with extended friendships. If you have the selfish opinion that this is just a free meal with a “get what you can while you can,” attitude, take care lest you are saddled with guests of the same mind-set.<br /><br />You may become overwhelmed at a formal dinner at the scores of implements and utensils on the table. Rather than succumb to an anxiety attack, take a deep breath and remember this simple rule. Work from the outside in. If the table is set correctly you can’t go wrong looking at the utensil that is farthest from the plate and starting there. Your napkin is on your left. Your silverware should be arranged in order the courses are served. On your left, look for at least two forks, a smaller salad fork and a meat fork. If the salad is served, before the meat, the smaller fork is placed on the outside. If the meat is served first, then the larger fork will be on the outside. Many fine-dining restaurants serve salad as a separate entrée, making it more common to see the salad fork on the outside. If they are both the same size, you won’t have to worry. Just use the outer fork with the first thing served.<br /><br />On your far right there will either be a small fork (which indicates an appetizer of shrimp or oysters will be served) and/or a soupspoon farthest from the plate. Sometimes the soupspoon is used for a fruit cup. Your teaspoon is to the right of your knife. If steak is served, a steak knife will be placed to the right of the dinner knife which is closest to the plate. IA fork and/or spoon above your plate, are the dessert utensils. A goblet of water is toward the upper right of your setting. If the table is set with a coffee cup and saucer, it is placed on your right, above the spoons. It should have a spoon resting on the saucer. If anything is missing, you may ask a server or hostess politely for the utensil you need.<br /><br /><strong>Casual Dining</strong><br /><br />Casual dining has become more and more popular. This is probably because people are eating out more and making choices that are easier on their pocket books. Also, we live in such a fast-paced society, many just eat and run, finding fast-food more convenient. What do you do when you are headed down to the nearest fast-food restaurant? Well, I wouldn’t suggest forsaking all manners just because you have to stand in line to get your food and fill your own paper cup with soda.<br /><br />Casual dining does not require any special attire. In most eating establishments, men must wear shirts and everyone are required to wear shoes. This doesn’t seem to be a problem with Christians, since our men usually wear shirts in public anyway. Shoes or sandals should be worn anytime you go out in public (unless you are wading in the ocean or lake).<br /><br />Being courteous to others while waiting line probably comes naturally. If you are the guest of someone else, as you approach the cashier, stand aside a little to make sure they intend to pay for your meal. There is nothing more embarrassing than someone who presumes to be on your bill, when you don’t have the money to cover the expenses. Usually your host or hostess will encourage you to order first, or they may go ahead and then say, “Please order what you like,” or “Go ahead, I’m treating today.” It is good to say, “Thank you,” and then order. When the meal is finished, you can thank them again.<br /><br />Many fast-food restaurants allow you to wait on yourself for the condiments. Unless the person you are with offers to get your condiments, you will be expected to wait on yourself.<br />Let your host pick a place to sit, or ask if he or she has a preference. You can decide where to sit when you are the one who pays. Being courteous and mindful of other’s needs makes you a popular guest no matter what type of dining you are engaged in.<br /><br />Casual dining in someone’s home is usually very relaxed. Often the food is served on paper plates with a serve-yourself type meal. As the guest in this situation, you may offer to help with any part of the meal the hostess agrees to. This type of dining is usually done when several friends get together and go to a particular home after church. Casual dining is excellent for a holiday barbecue, or an informal get-together to introduce and meet new friends. Whatever the reason, it can be a wonderful time of fun, relaxation, and fellowship.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10891933.post-1110079309148870042009-02-25T19:21:00.000-08:002010-04-08T12:05:06.581-07:00This beautiful bride is my daughter.<a href="http://photos1.blogger.com/img/138/3661/640/MJB1.jpg"><img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: #000000 1px solid; BORDER-LEFT: #000000 1px solid; MARGIN: 2px; BORDER-TOP: #000000 1px solid; BORDER-RIGHT: #000000 1px solid" border="0" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/img/138/3661/320/MJB1.jpg" /></a><br />Beautiful Bride <a href="http://www.hello.com/" target="ext"><img style="BORDER-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; BACKGROUND: none transparent scroll repeat 0% 0%; BORDER-TOP: 0px; BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-TOP: 0px" border="0" alt="Posted by Hello" align="absMiddle" src="http://photos1.blogger.com/pbh.gif" /></a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1